This time of year I always miss my parents the most. They both passed away within a couple years of each other not too long ago, and I’m still not sure if I’m used to the idea. They were both born in December, so not only Christmas but two birthdays – remembering the dates and trying to figure out their ages and what to get them – was sometimes a month long project.
When we cleaned out their house back in California many of my mother’s curios made their way into my cabinets. She’d worked in gift shops for years in the evenings and loved bringing home little figurines, dolls and pieces of china that she fell in love with during her shift.
The little mice and cool cats that peek out from among my collection of china and glassware aren’t pieces I’d pick out for myself necessarily, but they really express my mom’s personality. She loved the notion of gum chewing and musical instrument playing critters – that somewhere there was another reality that was far more gentle and amusing than the one she knew.
I love her pink glasses and matching china pattern too. I can remember when our family was large and unified, these pieces laid out on the table were so elegant. When they were finally handed off to me they were cracked and stained from many years of wear. Baking soda and peroxide cleaned them up, but they still belong to Christmases past.






























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Sadly Christmas certainly is a time to reflect, and think about people who are no longer with us.
Your shared memories are lovely though.
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Thanks for sharing your memories, Carrie.
It’s such a warm indulgence to take the time to reflect on the past. Every time I go back in my mind, I learn something new that I never saw before…
Sweet & bittersweet thoughts. Sounds like your mom never lost her sense of whimsy and wonder- how enviable!
Love the goblets, they really are charming. I think that’s a “king’s thumbprint” pattern, right?
Thanks for sharing and it must be a little bit nice in knowing that you have these mementos that bring back such fond memories.
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what a sweet way to remember your mom. mine too collects little figures & things. i’m hoping she and my dad will move closer to us so they can spend more time with us. and i’ve already made off with a few of my favorite things
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These pieces are so precious- esp. those mice! You can really tell your mother had a definitive taste that was just lovely and fun.
I love Herend china!!
Such sweet lovely things to remember yuor mother by – thanks for sharing with us
Reading your comments here about the memories of your parents, and of your mother, has really humbled me to feel blessed this holiday.
Family is something too many of us take for grantted, and I am happy you find peace through reflecting in these objects.
May you have warmth and happiness in your heart this season, and thank you for reminding us to cheerish what we do have. Thank you.
thanks for your sweet comments!